Psychologists are of the opinion that everybody displays fifteen minutes of madness daily (mainly through anger).
Anger is healthy when channelled to the right course and expressed for the right reasons but it must be properly managed or else it turn sour and cause damages untold.
Lets talk about anger a bit. If you have never been angry in your life, it means you are probably not alive or you are insane (apology tendered).
A little dose of anger is healthy but when you cannot control the anger and it is now the one controlling you, then destruction lurks in the corner.
I have seen a man get angry and beat his pregnant wife to coma (the door of the apartment was locked and neighbours could not come to rescue). I have seen a wife get angry either justifiably so or not and she ended up destroying all the electronics and tearing up the certificates of the husband. What else? No wonder the holy book says “anger resides in the heart of the fool”.
Mind you, I am not saying you will not be provoked to anger! Far be it. In fact the people closest to you will be the one that will provoke you the most (your children, wife, husband, siblings and colleagues). Offences will surely come but you must make up your mind before people offend you that you will let go and not bottle up offences.
Anger age men beyond reasonable level! It takes lesser facial muscles to smile than to frown. More energy is used up while you are angry.
Hear me, the stronger party always initiate peace talk. Walk out of offences and shake off anger. Don’t allow anger to affect you to the extent that it will run and ruin your life.
Don’t bottle up anger, it wears out the stomach lining and causes unimaginable health problems. Express your anger in a controlled manner and don’t pour vitriol on others to show your anger.
You are the general overseer of you life after God. Don’t allow a third party to control you life and happiness through anger.